How to Name a Puppy (with Angel Intervention)

I told you in my post Heaven Sent Messages that I would fill you in on how the pup, Timmy Elijah Love, got his name… and it’s a doozy, if I do say so myself.  Of course, my influence was key to this decision, but read for yourself how the confluence of spirit, serendipity and relationships formed this elegant name.

Little Timmy Elijah Love

Once mama came to the conclusion that she must adopt this new little guy she started pondering names.  Her first inclination is always towards personally meaningful, literary or cultural names.  Names that immediately came to mind were Aramis, Amadeus and Sirius (notice the cadence of all are in sync with Atticus — no coincidence!)

Backtrack one month… An FOA I met through twitter (a gloriously centered and spiritual soul — @OneLoveOneEarth) had emailed mama telling her that her son had some insights on the night of my transition and when mama was ready, she wanted to share.  We’ll come back to this storyline in a moment…

During a road-trip last weekend, the name Timmy kept coming into mama’s mind.  It made sense because both mama and I have a deep love and respect for young Timmy Lincecum, ace Giant’s pitcher and 2-time Cy Young award winner.  As you FOA’s know, mama has been a diehard SF Giant’s fan since she was a wee child and Timmy holds a special place for her.

Timmy Lincecum

Our “freaky” pitcher stands for so much more than award and World Series Championship winner.  For us, Timmy Lincecum is a beacon of hope and resiliency.  Proof that an underdog — a skinny, scrawny, long-haired kid — is capable of indescribable greatness.  A strong name indeed, but others thought it was a little silly and not dignified enough.

As mama was driving, she was listening to her beloved Chris Robinson Brotherhood and grooving to their rendition of the old classic, “Poor Elijah”.  Then when she switched to the radio, can you guess what song was playing?  Eric Clapton’s version of Poor Elijah!  Lightbulb moment!  His name will be Elijah.

Now, getting back to my twitter friend… Mama came home to a long email from @OneLoveOneEarth and mama felt my spirit moving in the universe.

“December 12th, before bedtime, my son (Timmy) – who is six and VERY aware and intuitive – said some very interesting things.  He said it was a very special “angel day.”  To us an “angel day” is a day to honor someone’s passing.  Timmy is very passionate about Jesus (100% his own truth and took me completely by surprise a few years ago) and is curious about “Jesus’ friends who are now angels.” “

“He told me that night (December 12th) a very special angel was being born.  Timmy that the special angel was going to the Light because he believed in the Light.  He said the angel’s family believes in the Light too – and that they’d be sad – but they should be happy because the new angel would be very happy.”

Sweet baby

Blimey!!  Little Timmy’s revelations were spoken at almost the exact time of my transition!  And Mama had no idea of our friend’s son name.   It immediately made sense to mama… I was driving this decision from the heavens and she got it!  Timmy Elijah Love.

They say the universe works in mysterious ways.  But it’s not such a mystery when there’s a furry angel keeping watch.

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Atticus’s Impact

By Heidi

Dearest FOA’s

As you can imagine, I am still in a state of shock and grief…missing my beloved Atticus.  Slowly, I am regaining my footing from the abyss of sadness and emptiness.

Through my devastation, I’ve been buoyed by the warm and loving thoughts for Atticus that have come to me through the website, emails, cards, facebook and twitter.  Atticus was certainly no ordinary dog and he had friends all over the world.

I’ve decided to share a small sampling of the wise and wonderful words that have floated my way over the past few weeks.  You can also find wonderful tributes and comments in the post The World Mourns.

“Be at peace knowing we have family/friends in high places. Not an ending but merely a new beginning. As in birth there seems to always be tears through the transition. With Love, Faith, and Understanding. Our deepest condolences. “ ~ Scott Richardson, Napa, CA

Atticus never stopped smiling (a good lesson for all of us)

“Sometimes someone or something touches your heart and opens your spirit to new thoughts and understandings. I believe Atticus and you have highlighted issues and ideas that encouraged people to think outside their comfort zone and as a result your readers become better people and citizens. These are incredible accomplishments for a humble pup and his much loved Mom.” ~ Catherine Balck, Crescent City, CA

“I’m completely amazed at all of the warm messages that people are writing! I’m so proud to be related to such a strong person who fights for the good in the world! I’m sad that Atticus is gone but it’s so awesome that he helped make the world a better place! SO PAWSOME! love you!” ~ Chelsea Gregory, Madrid, Spain

“Many of you know that Atticus, Heidi Alberti‘s wonderful canine friend, passed on a couple of days ago. Atti had become a part of the FB community as well as the much larger community surrounding Heidi. This post by Judy Stone-Goldman is both beautifully written and poignant, and a great tribute to Atti. Attitus- enjoy running through meadows of wild flowers and of course, always speaking your mind. You will be missed.” ~Candace Davenport, CA

“I know that just hearing about Atticus’ antics would bring a smile to my face and that is how I plan to keep his

Michelle's pup wearing his Atticus Memorial Antlers

memory alive. I am going to get some antlers and put them on my dog for Christmas as a memorial for Atticus. Love & hugs to you ♥” ~ Michelle Barbieri Burt, CA

Meeting Sara -- one of Atti's first FOA's

“The very first time I ever read Atticus Uncensored the feelings I immediately felt were peace & happiness! Atti’s humor came shining through too! I, along with many, will miss Atti! He will never be forgotten! ♥ ♥” ~ Sara Neely, AZ

“I’m feel so blessed to have known Atticus through his blog and am quite sure that he is romping with Maci and Suzie and all of our beloved foor footed friends who have crossed over the rainbow bridge. Take solace in the fact that they will all be waiting for us when we cross over as well.” ~ Lori Gallagher Wainio, CA

“Atticus really will be missed terribly by everyone ~ we actually referred to The Circulation Desk as 4 Girls and a Dog. There is certainly a new angel in heaven tonight bringing them his special pawspective.” ~ Laine Dakin, AZ

“I have changed my profile picture in honor of Atticus and am so sad that he is no longer here to educate and brighten our days. My thoughts and prayers are with his mom, Heidi Alberti who is hurting deeply; please send her your love and words of comfort. I will miss him, too.” ~ Donna McCord, CA

When Atti met Donna (love at first lick!)

@AtticusUncensor As someone said : born a dog, died a gentleman. Be proud of who he was, as we all are, around the world.” ~ Sevi Ponti, Athens Greece via twitter

“I can’t imagine the world without Atticus’ amazing and effervescent spirit.” ~ Sabrina Thompson, CA

“Hugs, Heidi. Wish I had the right words and could give you a real hug instead of a virtual one. All I can say is thank you for seeing the wise, noble spirit in Atticus and sharing him with so many. ❤” ~ Connie Harrington Waring

“Atticus is one of those special dogs who will be remembered by all.” ~ Dr. Jen Arnold, DVM, Sacramento

“It that absolutely breaks my heart to hear about Atti! I remember him as a puppy up on Bainbridge Island and had so much fun with you guys up in Folsom. Feel free to call anytime! I miss you and will surely miss Atticus as well :-( “ ~ Mateo Taylor, US Marine

Atticus always had a special love for Mateo

“The amazing bond you share with him will continue forever in your heart and in his. What a treasure it has been to be among those sharing in his life, and in your joy of being his Mama.” ~ Diane Cleaver McKee, CA

“We are here for you. Anything you need. Atticus brought light, love, and magic to so many. YOU are an amazing mom…You were lucky to have each other, though I doubt luck had much to do with it. It was just meant to be that you would be together.” ~ Jamie Leigh Himmelstein, CA

“My dear on-line friend Heidi Alberti said good-bye to her beloved Atticus, a dog of definite distinction and powerful voice for social justice and love (yes, the dog’s voice!) This is devastating news for all of us who followed Heidi and Atticus in the blog. “ ~ Judy Stone Goldman, Seattle WA

“Atticus will always remain an inspiration to pet lovers and his followers who have shared his energy and pawsitive thoughts through your writings.” ~ Jeff Jaworski, Sacramento Bee

”My prayers are going out to both you and Atticus today. Take your time processing it all and be patient with yourself….. the healing will come with time. You both were blessed to have shared so much together! Be well… Peace” ~ Cory Dudley, Colorado

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The World Mourns…

Atticus Finch Alberti

August 6, 2005 – December 12, 2011

Atticus --- no ordinary dog

The world lost a hero this week.  Atticus Finch Alberti was the voice of reason and hope for his thousands of readers worldwide.  His special brand of commentary through his blog, Atticus Uncensored, revealed a fresh way of looking at the world; with hope, resiliency, love, abundant joy and humor.  And yes, Atticus was a canine.

Atticus left our world Monday evening in his mama’s arms after a brief, tragic illness.  He consumed a toxic plant or mushroom for which there is no antidote or cure.  Atticus was given a 1% chance to recover and his doctors valiantly pursued every course of action, but he was not meant to stay with us.

Atticus stood strong for social justice and equal rights.  He was the voice of the voiceless and opened our minds and eyes to another way of viewing our world.  Atticus took social responsibility to the highest level and gained respect from the humans who followed him.  He phone-banked for candidates who aligned with his values (well, he sat at his mama’s feet).  He walked in parades and stood with the masses of the Occupy movement.

Atticus was no ordinary dog.  He was true agent for social change, tolerance, love and peace.  He has exited this plane of existence, yet he is still with us in spirit.  A soul as deep and pure as Atticus’s will live on forever.

Here are some of the tributes that have been written about Atticus this week:

Blogger on the Rainbow Bridge  - Lisa Howard, Sacramento Bee

On Losing Attiucs The Best Canine of the Year (Decade) – Judy Stone-Goldman, The Reflective Writer

My Way of Thinking/Atticus – William Austin Howe

This is For Atticus: RIP – Franziska San Pedro, Flavor Designs

Dog Days Are Over – Louise Edington, Fabulous and Fearless

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Feistiness Knows No Age

I’m an early riser — you know, early to bed early to rise and all that.  A typical weekday morning includes a little Morning Joe on msnbc and on Monday at 5am I tuned in to listen to Joe, Mika and Willie banter.  My readers know that I’m a political pup and feel the need to keep up with the latest in national news and politics.

Well, I was bloody surprised when I heard the group start talking about a video that had gone viral that had nothing to do with politics or world news.  They were discussing (and laughing about) a sports event that went awry.  I know this doesn’t sound particularly unusual, but the story they were talking about involved a FOA!

Yes, a Friend of Atticus making the national news!  And not just on cable.  We saw this video replayed on every national newscast and it has gone viral on YouTube.

The story was about Joe Kapp — famed Steelers quarterback and Cal quarterback and coach who has lead teams to the Rose Bowl and Superbowl, and is a FOA.  Kapp was a star in the Canadian Football League as well and last weekend he went to a banquet in Vancouver honoring CFL players.

He was on stage with former rival Angelo Mosca and Kapp removed a flower from an arrangement and offered it to Mosca.  Kapp said it was a gesture of peace, a “let’s let bygones be bygones” expression, but the response from Mosca clearly said that he is unable to let the past go.

Mosca pushed the flower away and uttered where Joe could “shove it”.  Joe playfully tapped Angelo with the flower and that’s when 74 year old Mosca started hitting Kapp with his cane!  Then the punches started, with Kapp nailing a right-cross to Mosca.

You know I’m a peacenik and do not condone violence, but this scene proved to me that feistiness is not lost with age!  I know Joe Kapp and he is a good, kind man.  And he’s feisty!

Kapp later told the SF Chronicle “I’m not proud of it.  I did not start it. I never started a fight in my life. Quarterbacks are supposed to be smarter than that. And I didn’t start this one.”

I don’t agree with fighting but I do agree with standing up to bullies.  And being struck by a cane after offering peace is bullying in my book.  I should take a lesson from Joe Kapp, just in case another dog attacks me!

This is only football shirt I own...

Getting older certainly doesn’t have to be boring!  I’d love to hear about any feisty seniors you may know.

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Family, Not Frenzy, For Thanksgiving

It’s Thanksgiving again!  You know, the day when humans in our country celebrate gratitude and food (unlike dogs who celebrate our thanks & edibles daily!).  I woke up this morning with a gracious heart, scheming how I can exude my gratitude and goodwill to others.

Grateful for my brother Wilbur & fresh roses. Wilbur's thankful for his new hoodie (gift from neighbor)

Mama’s in the giving spirit too and she also woke up thinking about all she is grateful for in her life.  With a hot mug of theraflu, mama penned a note of love and thanks to her bestie and put it in the mailbox.  Yes, Real mail!  Which makes me conscious of my gratitude for the mailman.  I can tell you that he is probably not thankful for me though, as I greet him with piercing barks every time he shows up.  I know it’s stereotypical, but I can’t help myself.

Every morning as I snuggle mama, I feel thankful for my family.  Grateful for the love and warmth and financial support through my health issues.  I am eternally grateful for my friends, both human & canine, who give of themselves so openly and add another dimension of love to my life.

I am grateful for all that I have materially and I am never in despair about what I don’t have.  I have a warm house, some really cool clothes, loads of “babies” and toys, plenty of good food and I even have my own section in mama’s Outback.  What more could I want?

Apparently, humans aren’t always happy with what they already have and need to acquire more.  I really have a hard time grasping the race to Black Friday frenzy after just celebrating gratitude with family.  It makes no sense to me.

After the Thanksgiving meal, I want to lounge on the couch with a full belly, surrounded by my loved ones playing games or watching a movie.  Nowhere in my desired Thanksgiving schedule involves standing in line in the dead of night for a deal on a new television or gizmo made in China.  Where is the joy and feeling of gratitude in fighting crowds for that discounted Snuggie?

I’m not a huge consumer and I really don’t like shopping (except at PetSmart), but if you are someone who enjoys the post-holiday splurge, I urge you to join Small Business Saturday, instead of Black Friday.

Bella's grateful for the heating vent

Why shop the big box corporate entities when you can support a small, locally-owned business?  It’s estimated that 68 cents of every dollar spent locally stays in the community.  Now that figure almost makes me want to shop!

I cannot end this post without thanking you, my loyal readers and FOA’s.  I value each and every one of you and blogging wouldn’t be the same without your thoughtful comments and engagement.  Wishing you peace, joy and love this Thanksgiving and always.

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